As a fellow vaginismus sister, sex toys might feel a little overwhelming.
Okay, a little more than a little..
I only accidentally found myself in a sex store, because I needed to walk through it on my way in and out of my first pole dancing class!
During that first visit, she and I decided not to leave the store empty handed.
And since I was far from ready to buy a typical sex toy, I ended up buying a kegel ball set!
This was something right up my alley at the time, as my purchase was a lot more about prioritizing physical ‘training’ rather than play and pleasure. I wrote about here, if you’re curious.
Another milestone in my introduction to the world of sexual pleasure tools was my first vibrator experience. As I do suggest for a first vibrator, especially for vaginismus sisters, this should be with a toy that is the least intimidating possible – hence, an external vibrator!
But what about a vibrator meant to be used internally?
If you haven’t yet experienced vibrations internally, you might be thinking.. ‘Ah that would be too intense!!’
And it can be.
The sensation of the vibration INTERNALLY can be a little startling in fact.
Leading to a bracing and similar physical contraction definitive of the Cycle of Pain and the protective body response of vaginismus as a whole!
If the vibration is soothing enough though, it can contribute to improving blood circulation and intensifying pleasure WHILE promoting pelvic floor relaxation. A win-win-win!
With additional practice, the more intense sensations can help you expand your nervous system’s capacity to hold more pleasure.. And of course with the principles of presence, the correct breathing techniques and other tips to promote full body relaxation, this can help you experience stronger orgasms.
It’s been proven by science!
If you’d like to start slow when it comes to introducing some internal vibration to your self-pleasure or dilating practice, consider using a pelvic wand with a vibrating feature. You can read about that here.
And if you feel ready to pick up the pace with those vibrations internally..
Perhaps you’d like to consider a vibrator that combines internal vibrations with the next level clitoral orgasms of one of my favourite kinds of toys.
For this blended orgasm combination of subtle external stimulation and internal pleasure, The Womanizer Blend is a great choice.
This may come as a surprise to you considering how much of the media depicts explosively pleasurable sex as purely PIV sex..
But some roughly 75% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm!
Meaning that..
External clitoral stimulation not only up-levels the experience of arousal BIG TIME, but for many of us, it’s a key ingredient for actually making PIV sex orgasmic.
And when it comes to solo play..
This toy guarantees that all bases on external clitoral stimulation are covered, while giving you the opportunity to familiarize yourself with the sensation of something being inside of you AND being a source of pleasure!
These are the 3 steps for using the Womanizer Blend..
Internal Vibrations
This toy is officially classified as a rabbit vibrator (like the one here) because it’s intended to stimulate the G-Spot on the inside.
The internal ‘arm’ is thankfully also flexible so you can adjust it to your unique body shape for a more comfortable angle of insertion for you!
And it has 6 vibrations modes – low, medium, high, massage, wave and pulse.
External Pleasure Modes
On the outside..
The Womanizer Blend uses pulsating and massaging changes in air pressure to create a pleasurable sensation WITHOUT touching the clitoris! This ensures that its ~8,000 nerve endings are not over-stimulated.
It literally uses the movement of air at different pressures and directions to creates a suction and gentle massage sensation. A fluttering sensation different from the typical vibrator.
And it has 8 pleasure air intensity levels.
Ease of Use
This toy has 3 buttons: one to control the 6 internal vibrations modes, as well as the + and – for the 8 pleasure intensity levels.
Ease of Cleaning
The Womanizer Blend is waterproof, making it easy to clean (and use in the shower or bath if that’s your thing!)
Ease of Charging
It comes with a magnetic USB charging cable.
Material & Aesthetics
It’s a pretty-looking pleasure partner, made of medical grade silicone. And it comes in pink, light pink and blue. It’s made of medical grade silicone.
Discreetness
The quietest toy I’ve ever come across is the Womanizer Next, which is the external-only stimulation version of this toy!
Though the Womanizer Blend is louder, it’s still quieter than many toys out there.
Price (in USD)
The Womanizer Blend retails for $119, which is among the high-price point toys at LoveHoney.
For a practically 2-in-1 kind of toy, I think that price is justified!
So what do you think about introducing internal vibrations do your practice? Would you give this high-tech internal vibrator a try?
Here’s to your blended orgasms!
– Katrin, with Love
