Pleasure
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Using Your Fingers For Pleasure
If you’re anything like me… You didn’t explore your body sexually very much during your life. For me… The times that I did engage in…
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What Does Surrender Have To Do With Vaginismus?
What’s ironic is that for many of us… The very thing that has kept us safe in the world is the thing we NEED to…
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Mostly, Sex Hurts: Fran Bushe’s Story
“Have a glass of wine to loosen yourself up a bit?” These words were said to me by a doctor a few weeks before I…
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Never Have I Eva Tried A Vibrator Like This
Okay, you know how when you see something odd looking, you just have to try it? That’s how I feel about this bug-looking vibrator. But…
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Welcoming Vaginismus – A Tiny Memoir: Fiamma’s Story
Many thanks to Victor Yrigoyen for the illustrations. Check out his website and Instagram. “For many, the psychological impact of vaginismus can be even more agonizing than the…
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A Pleasure Practice To Help You Overcome Painful Sex And Shame Around Sexuality
I have to admit… I felt shame related to my sexuality pretty much my entire life ever since I could understand the concept. That’s why…
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A Tiny (And Tickly) Tip To Help You Reconnect With Your Sexuality
Have you been missing pleasure and sensuality in your life lately? I can imagine that… And when all the sexual desire was gone, it sprinkled…
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How Your Lubricant May Be Messing Up Your Vagina
If you’re dealing with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, choosing the right lubricant is even MORE important than the right set of dilators. When…
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Perfect Pleasure Partner For Those With Pelvic Pain
Pelvic pain. It’s NOT what you asked for. In your teens, thinking about what sex would feel like was so exciting, mysterious, and raw. And…
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Yoni Gazing – An Ancient Tantric Ritual To Help With Painful Sex And Vaginismus
Unlike penis-owners, vagina-owners face a really significant downside. See, a man… Literally HOLDS his penis to pee standing up right. He can easily WATCH his…
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Affordable Dilators?
Most dilators sets are PRETTY pricey! A wonderful human recently commented on a post of mine on my Instagram: “I wish I was able to…
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Finding Pleasure Internally
After working through vaginismus and finally being able to achieve PAIN-FREE penetration.. Let’s talk about turning pain-free into PLEASURABLE! If penetration wasn’t going to be…